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Cheryl Baumgartner CITRMS commented on Brenda Farrar-Ejemai's blog post 'The Lord Is Not Your Husband - Lord Yes, Lover No'

I wonder about that too since it is contradictory. We are taught that God is perfect and does not makes mistakes. He made us just as we should have been made. I am not a mistake, I am just the way he wanted me to be.

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The Lord Is Not Your Husband - Lord Yes, Lover No

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In 1994, Brenda Farrar-Ejemai wrote her first piece of literature, a poem, entitled: ‘Experience’. Two years later, in 1996, her children’s book: Roast Beef and Gravy and Black Tongue was written. In 1998, both Poetry From The Heart and a motivational series (including The Goal, Worry, and Fear) were published. The documentary/book: The Family In The Car, A Revelation, (written in 2004) is her fourth book.

Ms. Farrar-Ejemai is an author, educator, conference speaker, and business woman. She is a contributing editor for BrooWaha Newspaper, located in New York, Los Angeles, London and Paris. She writes motivational articles on various blogs. She is also a board member and the Training Director of the United Black Writers Association.

She was born and raised in New York City. There she attended elementary, junior/high school, and college. After attending the City University of New York, she graduated Magna Cum Laude, with degrees in education/sociology.

Favor Blooms, LLC was started in 1994 by Brenda Farrar-Ejemai, and was birthed out of the need to produce work that was not only significant, but timely.

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The Lord Is Not Your Husband - Lord Yes, Lover No

From the author of:
The Family In The Car
A Revelation

The
Lord
Is Not
Your
Husband
Lord yes, Lover no

Coming Spring, 2009!

Placed in human beings are the needs and desires necessary for reproduction. Along with these natural desires, comes personal gratification, as well as, pleasure. All of these are important to the continuance of the life cycle. Without them, humanity would become extinct.

Someone once said that they believed God purposely made sex pleasurable so that procreation would… Continue

Posted on March 28, 2009 at 3:36pm — 1 Comment

Why Is Black History Important?

Why Is Black History Important?

Without Black History there would be no American History. America was built by the hard work of Black people.

The contributions of African Americans to these United States have been innumerable and have benefitted America economically, as well as, culturally.

Black History must not be forgotten, lest we blend into the melting pot of America.

If black history is no longer celebrated, Black people will have been forgotten, swallowed up and put in the background… Continue

Posted on February 26, 2009 at 1:30pm —

A ROLLER COASTER RIDE - A Comparison Poem

A ROLLER COASTER RIDE

Up and down, up and down

It’s the pull of gravity isn’t it?

You’re down longer than you’re up

Isaac said it best

It’s easier going up

Slow, steady

But coming down is frightful

Fast, quick

No time to prepare

Up and down, up and down

The unsteadiness is making you sick

You’re screaming

It’s uncomfortable

You wanna get off

But you can’t (you know what I mean?)

There’s no where to go

YOU HAVE TO RIDE IT OUT!

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Brenda Farrar-Ejemai
(author of:… Continue

Posted on January 3, 2009 at 5:18pm —

THE GOAL - Part of a Motivational Series

THE GOAL

It’s like reaching for something far away. If you keep on reaching and running without stopping, you will obtain what you are reaching for. Persevering, not quitting, but going after it with all your might, as though you have to have it; that’s the driving force. Don’t look at time as a barrier. Look at it this way, the years are going to pass anyway, so why not accomplish what you wish.

The battle starts in your mind, that’s where it is. It is a war between your spirit and your min… Continue

Posted on January 3, 2009 at 5:18pm —

Worry

WORRY

Worry is to feel or express great care and anxiety, to fret. To worry is to have something constantly on the mind and agonizing over it. It can give a sick feeling. It can also be expressed through speech and action. The mind is agitated and there are complaints, there is impatience and irritability. In other words, there is no peace.

Sometimes worry can consume hours, days even weeks out of your life. You try to throw it off, but it clings like static. It clings like a tick on an unsusp… Continue

Posted on January 3, 2009 at 5:14pm —